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14 April 2008 @ 08:31 am
Before the Flowers of Friendship Faded  
To commemorate the 100th anniversary of Jack Williamson's birth, which is now just fifteen days away, Haffner Press has published The Worlds of Jack Williamson: A Centennial Tribute. The volume includes many of Jack's classic stories, as well as previously unpublished tales, a film treatment, and appreciations by both friends and academics.

My new icon today is a picture of Jack and me taken on the 75th anniversary of the publication of his first short story. We're holding a copy of the December 1928 issue of Amazing, which contains his debut story, "The Metal Man." I'm sure I'll have more to say about Jack on his birthday, but what I wanted to mention today was something brought to mind by Frederik Pohl's foreword, in which he wrote:

Half a dozen years later Jack and I did meet. That was in 1939.

Interestingly, the last time I saw him was in the year of 2006. That's a stretch of 67 years, and, when you think of it, that's a wonder. Not many friendships survive that long.


Which got me to thinking ... what's the longest spread of time between my first and most recent face-to-face meetings with people? (I'll exclude my wife from this exercise, even though we met on June 24, 1974, my first day of work at Marvel Comics, and last saw each other ... well ... this morning, a spread of almost 34 years.)

I've kept up with several high-school friends, but since I wouldn't have met them until we were around 15, that means we've only known each other for 38 years. I guess my longest non-marital friendship is with someone I met my first day of kindergarten. I was in the same class with him at P.S. 238 all the way through the 5th grade. Though we talk on the phone a couple of times each year, our last face-to-face meeting was about five years ago. I think that would put the spread between meetings in the flesh at around 43 years.

How about you?
 
 
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karen_w_newton[info]karen_w_newton on April 14th, 2008 02:02 pm (UTC)
I always feel left out when my husband talks about running into people he knew in kindergarten. I was a Navy brat and never went to any school more than 3 years-- more often one or two. I know exactly one person I went to high school with and that's because she knew my sister in college and was a bridesmaid in her wedding.

I think that's one reason my family is so close. For all of us, family are the only people who knew us as children.


Jamie Todd Rubin: bing and bob[info]jamietr on April 14th, 2008 03:36 pm (UTC)
You know, Haffner also put out (so far) a great 5 volume series with the collected fiction of Jack Williamson. I have all but the 5th volume, which I think covers the mid-1940s.

I am still close with a group of friends with whom I went to high school. I've known them all now for over 20 years, a little more than half my life, and I'm lucky enough to still see them pretty regularly.
(Anonymous) on April 15th, 2008 02:34 am (UTC)
Williamson Centennial
Scott:

Thanks ever so much for blogging about this--my personal tribute--to the fiction of Jack Williamson. I'm not qualified to speak too much of the man Williamson was (Jack does that exceedingly well in his autobiography), but as I sit here in the haze of post-air travel following this year's Williamson Lectureship, I happily reflect on what Roger Zelazny called, "The Williamson Effect." It's hard to believe that not even 24 hours ago, I enjoyed a dinner of pancakes with the Williamson Tribe and got the Grand Tour of the Ranch and even clocked in a little star-gazing and watched Betty, Milz, and Katie feed the livestock. Not too bad an evening for this city-boy.

Scott, you really need to let your bosses at SciFi write-off all future trips to Portales--we missed you dearly at this year's event.

For those to whom such things are important, the sixth volume of Collected Jack Williamson, GATEWAY TO PARADISE, is currently slated for 8-1-08.

Happy (early) Birthday, Jack!

Stephen Haffner
Big Poobah
HAFFNER PRESS

ps I >love< the avatar/icon!
scottedelman: Williamson[info]scottedelman on April 15th, 2008 03:08 am (UTC)
Re: Williamson Centennial
Ah, if only the cosmic overlords could be so persuaded! But I'm afraid that my visits to Portales always have been and always will be on my own time and my own dime.

And also, since our Spring daffodil party was Saturday, partying in Portales on Friday was out of the question!
Looking for a good word[info]fixnwrtr on April 19th, 2008 02:00 pm (UTC)
My best friend Connie = 37 years
My elementary school crush and friend = 42 years
Kennons, who lived above us in Panama where we first met = 45 years

I guess parents don't count.
scottedelman[info]scottedelman on April 19th, 2008 03:45 pm (UTC)
I guess parents don't count.

Nope! Because then our longest relationships would just be our ages.